Category: Dating and Relationships
So here goes, how many of you like giving head, receiving head or having your pussy ate. How many of you like to eat pussy! here here :). points at self!. :) Well post on and have fun. PS: if this gets under your skin please move on.
Oh my God Starfly you just never quit making me laugh. lol, Giving head ... yeah, I'll do it to get him ready. I won't swallow though, I got sick once for that. hahaha, but I freakin love recieving oral. It's likt my pussy's on fire.
And that, my lovelies, is all y'all need to know about me. :) lmao
Jessie
thank you :) figure someone has to add a little humer around here. :)
Omg, I'd love to go in to detail, but I've got a freaky enough rep around here already, so... And most people know me and my likes, but yes, I especially love to give.
I can't give head.. my mouth is too small and it's hard to do it without accidently biting down. I do it every now and then but itcan be uncomfortable for both of us.. My mouth is so small that dentists don't like working on it.. lol
Oh man. That sucks,... or not, as the case may be. LOL
wow. what a topic it is!!
I'll say this in a different way. I like kissing, licking, of course eating that teethless mouth. I'll go crazy if someone's doing the same to my boneless fish. but purely females. lol.
Raaj.
lmao jessiee agree with your last part of the post. Fire mmm is a good way to discribe it. :d
Mouth to small? Naw! Different techneaque? Maybe play the harmonica Music girl? Smile.
Me, well anything to do with getting or giving that is my thing.
Oh definitely. I thought about going in to more details on what she could do, but... LOL. I love love love to give head.
Hmmmmmm. well, interesting topic. All i will add to this, is, that i aim to pleaze and my partner should do the same. But let me clarify that i only aim to pleaze if i love someone. Now, the other way around... lol
Receiving is great!! but giving is much better!!
Um... well.. lol.
On a different note, how many of you guys out there like for a girl to swallow? Sometimes I do it to be nice, but it's not something I care for too much.
Doesn't reall matter as long as she doesn't jump up and run to the bath room. Just let is drip out or something on the be. No need to make a production over it. Grab your drink and have a kiss after. Smile.
If you don't want to swallow, you can always have a cup on hand, or you can let it run back out of your mouth and down his shaft and on to his balls.
Why the cup? Good sex is messy, so I say just let it drip. On the sheet, him, whatever. Just don't jump up, run away, goggle, spit, moan, and cough. Makes a man feel like you don't like him. *grin* Think about the trade. He's sucking up what from you? Smile. It's all good to me, but.
Mmm, I love eating out, much more than receiving. But when she's giving me head, I don't care if she swallows, or even about cumming in her mouth, although it does make the orgasm much more intense.
And there's so much more to it than just that climactic moment. Guys. Do you like to have your balls fondled while she's bobbing up and down on your cock? I figure most guys do, but I've heard of guys who didn't want their balls or their inner thighs touched at all.
odd! I love to have my balls played with, hell when they play with the prostate, don't get me started!!. :) :)
LOL, somehow, I knew you'd enjoy it.
Hmmm, and I wonder how he knew that ... lol
hahaha, it's not like you think, but that curved cock does fascinate me.
Me too. Curved cocks have always made me go "damn" teehee
Yeah, I'm cool with the "ball play," but it's gotta be pretty gentle, at least at first, lol. Who knows, I might have been hit with too many basketballs down there to be as comfortable as I'd like, haha.
I hate balls. Hell, I'll play with 'em during sex, fondle his balls, etc, but ay, they're nasty. I don't know what about them grosses me out so bad.
Wow, really? That's interesting. Wonder why.
I don't know, but they're sick. lol
lol, dang where do I pull these topics out of!!, hmm... guess I get board at work and try to find the most crazy topics to put up here. :).
Recieving oral is nice but it's not at the top of my list. now going down on a girl on the other hand, that is totally awesome. I love doing that right before intercourse. I love the taste, the warmth, the physical and oral signals she is being pleasured, and the intimacy of the act. sixty nine can be quite fun as well. There is nothing hotter than bringing a girl to orgasm with your mouth. I'd put it up there with making her have a g spot orgasm with my fingers. That is very hot. it's worth it even though you have to wash the sheets after if you don't have a few bath towels handy. and regarding the other question posted, I like it when a girl swallows but I'd rather cum inside her pussy or in her ass anyways if I am the one choosing the specific place in which to do so.
I actually enjoy giving a guy head. I enjoy him licking my pussy as well though. I definitely will not complain to that, Lol. I always swallow when I give a guy head even though I've been with one or two that have had some not so great tasting cum. Anyway, I find oral sex a very stimulating act if done correctly.
:) I, love, eating pussy!!!. My fave thing is listening to them while there in total pleasure land, and observing them squirm is fun. I do know some who do not like having there pussy eaten. So here as another topic. How many of you do not like oral sex!. :) post on and have fun.
Dude, getting your pussy licked feels fucking amazing. I swear, it feels like my pussy is flaming and smoking. It feels really hot, really fiery, and after a while it makes you cringe and try to buck him off so he can't touch it anymore. That's at your peak, right when you're about to cum, and that's when your clit is so sensitive that it's on fire. Everytime the guy licks it at that point makes you go limp.
There ya are, that's my look on recieving it. Now I can give head, but I only swallow if the cum is sweet and not disgusting. Like, if I swallow disgusting tasting cum I throw up 2 second later, usually all over him, which totally kills the mood. Overall I try to make sure he doesn't cum in my mouth at all, just nudge me when he's ready, then I can finish him off in my pussy.
Beat that :P
Jessie
well starfly u know my take cause u married me
Um, did she really have to post that twice? what, ya tryin' to make me double jealous? hahaha
:) hm... is all I have to say.
Good one rebell woman. Finishing off in a girls pussy is my top choice.
Glad to see so many of you men who actually enjoy going down on your woman. A guy who is willing to do that will have a much more fulfilling sex life. *Grin* I can't think of a woman I've known who doesn't enjoy that. But, I imagine it goes the other way around, too, so I'm also glad to see that girls like giving head as well. I think there are a lot of people out there who drastically underestimate the importance of oral sex, and how being both able and willing to give it to their partner can just make their sex life out of this world. Or, in contrast, how not being able or willing to give it can put a real damper on said sex life.
I have talked to a few girls that don't like to be given oral. Why? They just said they didn't like it. We never got to the point of sex, so maybe it was other issues as well, but I'll never know, so it does exist. I've heard some guys don't like it, because they feel a woman that will do this is dirty. Well their you go.
I'm not saying people who dislike it don't exist at all. i'm just saying that I think, by and large, they might be a minority. And, the perception that a woman who gives oral to her man is dirty is exactly the kind of thing that makes some women uncomfortable doing so. Societal stereotypes like that piss me off. I don't look down on people who dislike oral for personal reasons, but to teach someone that they are dirty for wanting it, or for giving it, upsets me.
I'm much fond of oral. but that's only with I love and I feel confident that she's crystal clean lol. Meanwhile, I do keep my privates clean forever.
and, as per my earlier experience, my ex wife love receiving but she is against giving. lol.
Raaj.
Ok i'll say once more that i don't give orral unless i'm in a long term lasting relationship. Its just one of those things for me. But I will say. there is nothing wrong with giving orral. Now, if a girl goes around and give every guy orral or a guy goes around giving every girl orral, i think there is something wrong with that. Just like i think its wrong to have sex with every person you come across. But orral is just on another level of personal for me. Just like sex. Won't do either unless i can say I love the person. I'm not ashamed of the fact that I've given orral, I'll put it out there openly but I also like to clarify that the guy I did give it to, i was with for 2 and a half years. Now, on the topic of swallowing? Who the hell would want to spit or or do what Anthony suggested. Cum doesn't taste particularly great and if swallowed you have to do much less tasting of it. If you spit it out, its passing over your tongue and all your taste buds which makes it worse. Now, I can't believe I've just gotten this sexually personal so I'll post this before I change my mind.
I agree, Kayla, there is a certain intimacy to either giving or receiving oral sex that nothing else matches. I know it doesn't always have to be that way between people: many can give or receive it with no feeling besides the physical pleasure. But I think, overall, it is one of the more intimate parts of sex, and when shared between two people who love each other, can be an amazing thing.
hahahha. I do agree with that. going down is really a great intimacy and only with whom I love for real. I won't suck or lick anyone or anything, you know? picky picky.
Raaj.
OK guys, here is a question for you: do you like having your balls sucked gently?
Yes, I for one do enjoy that. If the girl can be gentle, some girls simply can't seem to comprehend that those are extraordinarily sensative, and they need to be gentle.
I second celver lightenint answer yes but bee gentle, I mean ya I like to bang it out but only then is when I want to put up with a little pain not when my balls are beeing sucked.
I'll pass on that. I had a couple girls do it and I didn't find it enjoyable. To each their own I suppose.
Good God, Cody, that's scary that some girls don't realize that a guy's balls are sensitive and they need to be gentle. Would they want someone getting really rough with their clit? I guess some might, but still. A person is putting a lot of faith in their partner when allowing them access to such parts, and I think it's horrible when one misuses that. And how a girl doesnt realize she needs to be gentle is beyond me. I'd call such girls idiots. Harsh, I know, but it's what I think.
Exactly, guys are expected to be gentil with some parts for good reason when they're taking care of their girl, so it should be common sense to expect the same thing from them when they reciprocate. Seriously, teething my nuts isn't acceptable and would be considered by most to be a turn off...
lmao, guys, next time some bitch gets down and starts gettin' rough with your balls, just flip her ass over and bite her clit. That shit hurrrrrrts ... like bad. I'm sure it feels equivalent to violent ball-sucking. lol
Jessie
lol never would have thought of that jessie!!
Absolutely agreed, Jessie. Nice tactic. Or, as one of my guy friends did when living in a dorm, kicked her out with none of her clothes.
It might be alittle harsh, but hey, I bet they'd never, ever, make that error again, because, it fucking hurts. lol
Seems to me a lot of girls also forget that it's not like we are led to believe in movies and such... You don't just lick it a few times and the guy bursts with great joy and comes all over the place! lol A woman has to take time, use her fingers, lips, tongue, breath... Much like we enjoy the slow, teasing, detailed session.
Okay um... this topic is absolutely pointless.
I beg to differ. It's a positive thing to discuss matters such as these because some people may be better informed after reading through it. Some people are too shy to ask about certain things with their partner and a forum is easier for them. Or, perhaps somebody is single and has questions... That sort of thing. Yes, some of the back and fourth banter is funny or useless, however, there are usually diamonds in the ruff on most of these board topics if you choose to look for it.
I maintain that the post to say that this board is useless is useless.
If a topic is so pointless, why post to it and drag it on? Um? Just...
Hear hear, Cam, Cody, and Anthony. MarbleFish, this may be pointless to you, but not to others. and, if it is indeed so pointless, then why are you reading it?
true that!! after all I created it.
Okay. smiles.
ou know I don't know about oral being such an issue unless you are in a long term relationship. If you are close enough to be having sex at all, then why not oral? The sexual organs are probably lots cleaner then someones mouth, yet without being in a long term relationship we kiss, suck and all the mouth. You don't asks a lover when was the last time they brush their teeth, or do they have a dental infection. You just assume it the breath does not smell the mouth is dclean right? Seems like a bath before sex takes care of the clean issue, and if you're having sex you must trust them enough right? You could get worse things having sex then a little pee in your mouth, and the mans taste can be covered with some flavored lube. Interesting however, and as I say seems to be lots of issues with it other then cleanness.
lol, good point Wayne. I love oral sex! Giving it, receiving it, all the bit. In fact, I still demand it and I'm pregnant. Well, I guess that increases your sex drive, and that's scary for me since my sex drive was already insanely high as it was. lol, and this topic is not pointless, it's just ... fun. Haha, all fun things seem pointless to people who have no fun, hint hint. :P
Jessie
See! I told ya sex could get you worse than a little pee in your mouth. You don't even have to hafve a long term relationship. A one night stand can do it. Smile.
lol, have never had oral, or any other type of sex. *takes notes*
When I saw this I was not even going to look but curiosity got the bebtter of me. I love Oral but for me it is a special thing. Giving head I enjoy to though struggle a bit with not feeling good at it maybe haha. To many standards out there now days. To the person who posted about your clit being on fire I so agree with you. It is like everything is centered for a second all in that one spot. Now I got a question. Ladies do you like a man to put a few fingers inside while eating or squeezing the breasts type of thing? Or just focus on that one thing.
lol, that was me, clit on fire. Ah yes, I like multiple things being done to me at once. It makes me all that more vulnerable, which is hot, and the climax point is insanely sensative if I've got fingers in there, my clit getting licked, tits played with, yep yep, it's all ... heavenly. lol
Jessie
Now that is a hot picture right there.
I love giving head, not because of how it feels for me, but for how good it makes the guy feel. I love making him crazy, and if I'm feeling particularly generous, then I'll swallow, but I always gotta be careful with swallowing because sometimes it does make my stomach hurt, especially if it's the first thing going in my stomach in the morning, lol. I used to get a gag reflex when I started giving head, so I got this cream that you can put on the head of his penis so that when you put the penis in your mouth, the cream numbs the roof of your mouth and back of your throat. It's done wonders to help me illiminate the gag reflex, and I find I need it less and less now.
As far as receiving, in my experience, I've only been lucky enough to have one guy do it. That's not to say other guys I was with wouldn't do it, but things just never got there with them. The one guy who did do it though... God, it was fantastic, and I loved it soo much. I guess it's just because everything's so sensative down there that even the slightest lick feels like heaven. I love having my tits played with too. That shit gets me crazy if you can touch them right. Along the lines of what Jessie said, the more you can do to me at one time, the crazier I get.
Haha, think that's about all I'm gonna contribute, at least for now.
I have to do it...
I have to ruin it...
I'm the 70th poster. lol!
Ah, good one maiden. Giving or recieving oral is a great way to wake up. That was a very well written post, and was sixty nine to boot!
o this topic still going on and on?
mmm giving and receiving. I like both. but to be honest, 69 didn't work well in my case so far. since I guess it's because my ex was shorter than me and couldn't reach it at the same time perfectly. but 69 could be the best if both are almost in the reachable height I guess.
I hate spitters to be honest. those are meanies, in my opinion. if you aint ready to accept/swallow, why are you going for that then?
Raaj.
I love to give head, but we already knew that. Right?
Doesn't have to swallow to please. don't spit either, just allow it to run out. Sheet wash. Smile. Specially if it hurt your tummy in the mornings, just allow it to run out. Better yet, give him a kiss and give it back to him. Smile.
Lol, yeah, if you aren't ready to swallow, or have mixed feelings about it, don't try. I feel like if I were a guy, and my girl just spat my stuff out all dramatically, I would be kind of offended. That's why I didn't try until I thought I could handle it, and even then, I drank lots of gatorade after to wash the taste out. Before I started swallowing, I just let him cum and helped him clean up after with tissues/napkins lol. Now that I'm over the taste and everything though, I don't have much trouble with swallowing, just gotta be careful like I said especially in the morning.
Haha, I didn't even realize what number my post was. That's kinda ironic. I've never done 69 though... Gotta try that sometime.
Oh it can be quite fun indeed.
Well I do admit is not to sexy or romantic if a girl jumps up and runs to the bathroom, or leans over the side of whatever you are on and starts gagging and spitting. Lol. Yes clean up, let it run. I'd not swallow if I could not and I don't think a guy should instist. It's not the swallowing maybe but the completing in side her mouth I would say was the thing.
lol, you know what I do is just get up and slide my pussy down on his dick right before it explodes, that way he can shoot his load inside of me which he likes and I like so fucking problem solved. But the reason I can do that is because my man is very good at knowing when he's about to cum, so he can nudge me just intime. Some guys can't do that, they can't tell exactly when they're gonna blow, or when they know it's coming it's already too late to warn the her. So in that case, I would say just move your mouth off of it when he starts cumming and let it run all over your chest or something.
Jessie
Ah, but the results of your method..... smile. Nope I say use natural birth control in case you don't have any baby blocker installed.
well yeah, of course use birth control. lol, idk, I don't think I've ever been very concerned about getting pregnant, even when I didn't want kids ...
Ok, change of plans. If you don't want kids, shoot on the chest. Good idea.
Jessie
hmm... Jessie's comment about shooting your load on the chest, hmm... if only mine lady would let me. Lets just say, dam! she had no lack of a beautiful bust size. yummy!!! grin lol
I don't think there is anything better in life than getting head.
For me, there's nothing better than giving a guy head, unless he's so big that I can't manage. Lubing him up and jerking him off is good too though. Either way, I'm happy.
Being rich. That way you can get plenty head.
I,! love,! geting head. :) hell to ya!!
No seriously sometimes I can only speak fore myself its nice just to eat some yummy pussy and then lay back while getting so head. Honestly sometimes I would rather do that then do intercourse.
Too bad you're so totally straight. Bet you'd be a fun guy to suck off. you seem like you'd be really responsive, and you've got that curved cock, which is always a plus.
lol Anthony, hitting on merried men are we? Not very nice to his witch ... or, um, sorry, wife. :P
Jk Starfly, I 100% agree with you, sometimes after giving my man head, and after he eats me out like nobody's business, omj I wanna just keep doing it and not worry about fucking him. It feel so incredibly good, Lord it's like I'm in heaven. But then I get that craving for pain and botta boom botta bang, we're fucking like animals again. Hehee
Jessie
wel, what can I say. i'm just a sucker for married men. Pun intended, I suppose.
Jessie, that post sounds heavenly.
lol, ikr?
Damn, Jessie. I love how you just say it like it is. I don't have the guts to put it quite like that, but love the post, and agree entirely. Took me a minute to figure out the IKR acronym, but I've got it now.
lol, I really don't talk much actually; I usually only say something when something needs to be said. But the shit that comes out of my mouth sometimes is incredible , I've been told. Heh, I guess the same shit comes from my fingers. :P
Jessie
Taking the time to orally satisfy my partner is (for me) one of life's great pleasures. Using my tongue and mouth/face to stimulate the many sensitive places between her legs, allows me to better control the nature of the pleasure she receives. Sometimes it is like she is starving and needs to be satisfied without delay. My favourite though is to slowly bring her up to the point of climax but change or pause before she get's there and then start again letting her get a little closer each time. Once she is does orgasm she says that they are so worth the cruelty of the path to get there.
Another fun game (when the situation allows) is to give her a small clitoral orgasm but keep on kissing her pussy gently and slowly as she descends from her orgasm - keeping away from her now over sensitive clitoris. Maintain the gentle attention to the pussy and soon she starts to climb up the orgasm mountain again as she's climbing start to pay attention to her clit and she will thank you. I know my partner enjoys it as she often requests such treatment.
Hell yeah! That's what my man does to me. He don't give me a rest, he loves tantalizing me like that. Every man likes a little control, and shit, it suits my pussy just fucking fine. ;)
Jessie
Wonderful topic. Receiving head is cool but i, can eat a peach for hours!
Does it matter to you whether it's shaved or not?
lol, I gotta hear that.
For me, I don't wanna hairy hairy dick, but no bald dicks either. I don't wanna mouth full of hair.
Jessie
i give and receive head, and eat pussy.
i have sucked more cocks than most people could comprehend, and have been sucked by a far lesser, though also impressive, number.
i think i have eaten the pussies of maybe a dozen women.
as for hair, i prefer it—the more, the better!
i find shaved bodies to be somewhat less appealing, and a totally shaved one to be a complete turn-off. (a smooth body looks too childlike to me.)
bring ’em on!
Like I said, I prefer a trimmed cock but not totally bald and not too hairy. I've eaten a little pussy and I like hairless or nearly hairless cunts much better than hairy ones, but I'm not very picky. I just hate picky hair out of my mouth. If I'm with a person for a while and I love them before we end up having sex, I won't make them shave up for me, but I might tell them that that's what I like anyways. I guess the point is that the hairiness or baldness of a dick or pussy doesn't affect my loylty or love in any way. It's just not as sexy the hairier it gets generally lol
Jessie
For me, I suppose there's a point where it's too hairy, but I love it when a guy is fresh out of the shower, maybe even a bit damp still, smelling of soap and shampoo. There's nothing better than taking him completely in my mouth, burying my face in his pubes and breathing in his scent. That's why I kind of like it if the guy is only 6 inches or maybe a bit more. If it's too big, I feel like I can't do my job, can't please him as well.
very interesting topic.
I love going down on a girl if she tastes sweet. I had a gf once who smelled like metallic acid. I could not put my face near her pussy. However, the last girl I went down on, sweet as sugar and I could have eaten breakfast lunch dinner and dessert from her and I rather the woman be smooth. I dont like running my tongue over hair.
Playing with my balls doesnt do much for me. However, I found out the last time with a girl I fucking love my nipples being chewed on. wholly hell. I never knew pain could feel so good.
metallic acid? Sounds like she had some sort of...issue. Now I haven't done it but it's something I'd certainly be willing to do.
For me, it's more than just sucking a cock. It's my chance to worship the guy, enjoying and exploring. While my mouth is on his cock, I like to admire his legs and his balls, and anything else I can reach. I enjoy the chance to make the guy feel really good, so I want to make sure I do it really well, so he'll enjoy it as much or even more than I do. I love hairy legs and a responsive guy. If he's got a curved cock, it drives me absolutely wild. Not really sure why, but it's just so sexy! Anyway... Enough of my ramblings.
I love giving oral, and I don't mind swallowing. I hate being licked as I just can't relax enough to enjoy it
Leave it to me to bring this board back, but...
I recently had to go to the dentist to get my teeth cleaned. I had a wisdom tooth that was bothering me. Anyway, while examining my mouth, the dentist told me that I have an extraordinarily small mouth. I got a bit of a chuckle out of that.
Maybe that's why I don't care if the guy is a bit on the smaller side.
I do not mind giving head.
I like my pussy being liked it feels good.
I also like my pussy liked by a girl it feels so good.
I love eating out a girl, it's hot when she gets super wet. Girls shouldn't be afraid to cum when being eaten out, it's totally acceptable.
being afraid to cum when being eaten out? wow. that's a new one on me. strange, indeed.
Yes, I thought that was the reason?
i've eaten out and i've been eaten. i've sucked cock most often though.
And what do you think? Should a man hold back coming or a woman, or should they let it go?
Why hold back? I never have during any other act.
Wayne, I'm assuming you meant should a man hold back cumming on a woman?
if so, I say it depends on what she'd want. I, personally, like being came on.
No, I was asking HotMochaMama
if she thought a woman coming in a mans moth or a man coming in a women's moth was better, or what one was, sense she'd had both?
Did she thing a man or woman should hold back?
Have any of you ever eaten out a girl for four hours? Apparently my friend made this wild claim that he did this but I think he's full of shit. I'm sure it's nice if a guy does it for a time and is great at eating her out (or another girl), but isn't there a point where they should just stop? Lol
4 hours with no break is a bit far fetched.
It depends on what he means exactly. If he's saying he once laid a girl down, slowly took off her clothes, started kissing her temple and worked his way all the way down to her pinky toe, then went back up to try it all over again, then maybe I can buy the four hours thing. If he means he spent four hours with his tongue in her pussy, I think he'd end up with lockjaw or something. I know I've licked a girl for a long time, but four hours is just a bit out there.
um.., ya, I for got about this board lol!!!.
Probably just fell asleep after 15 minutes and woke up 4 hours later in the same place. To much drink will do that to you.
even though you weren't asking me, Wayne, I feel you'd find my answer interesting.
I personally like the taste of a girl's cum over that of a guy's.
Actually, I'm interested in all responses to this question.
I have tasted a girls, but only my own for guys, so can't say. I do know the taste changes depending on what has been eaten, but other things matter as well.
The basic tase seems to remain though.
Taste has to do with diet.
Sure diet, but you can change it easy. Example, if you feed a woman a meal with garlic, or onions, you'll taste it if you wait about an hour.
Well, I'd like to listen to videos of guys giving oral sex. My ex boyfriend of 3 years wanted me to give him oral. But, I didn't feel to cool with it. He tried to give me oral sex but he says that my vagina was too hairy. But, if you wanna know about me with guys, I like riding on top, kissing, hugging, and cuttleing. I must admit that I'm still a virgin. But, I'd rather stay that way until I get married.
Lol I don't get why people don't mind if someone gives them oral but they get squeemish about it. I'm also confused about why the previous poster wants to wait to have sex until after marriage, but you wanted your boyfriend to give you oral? That's still sexual, and he's just using his mouth and tongue in place of his penis. I'm not gonna lie, I dated this girl for about a year who wanted to wait until after we got married to have sex, but along with other reasons that was one reason I broke up with me. I was viewed as being the dick regardless of being honest with her, but anyway...
I mean that's one reason why I broke up with her. Pardon the typo.
to add to what I said earlier, I don't like the bitterness of a guy's cum.
then ask a guy to eat pineapple or other things that will make it sweeter first?
Drink plenty of water during the day if he's expecting oral later is good as well. A trim will fix that hairy pussy. You don't have to shave, just trim it some. Seem to me sex is sex. Sure, you are pentrated if you accept a penis, but if someone is going to eat you out, seems like you may as well enjoy the rest of it? The goal of sex is to come, so you'd be coming. Now if you were in a country that looked at hymns as proof of virginity, you'd be right, but otherwise, if I were having oral sex, I'd not think I was a virgin anymore.
I agree with you, but there are those who don't even think anal sex is sex because you can't make a baby. Try and wrap your head around that. A virgin who takes it up the ass from her boyfriend every night.
I'm not absolutely crazy about the taste of cum either. I don't mind it, but it's not something I crave. I have no problem at all with letting a guy cum in my mouth. I enjoy everything else about it. I love how his cock pulses as it shoots. I love knowing that it's making him feel really good. To me, it's actually kind of hot when a guy doesn't realize that I don't mind him cumming in my mouth, so he's trying to pull back and I'm still trying to go down even further, until he just can't hold back anymore and lets go.
Got to thinking about something, and I'm curious. One of the things I love to do when I'm sucking a guy off is to take his cock between my palms and apply a bit of pressure and release it several times while i'm swirling my tongue all around the head. This seems to work best for me when the guy is standing. I don't mean that I finish it this way, but it's one of the things I love to include as part of the process. Have any of you ever done that, or liked it when it was done to you?
Four hours for oral sex ... Possibly. But he's either doing it wrong, hasn't figured out what works for her, or she's difficult to get off.
I'd get bored of only oral sex for 4 hours. Plus I'd bet you'd get lock jaw, or something. The mouth is a muscle after all. She'd get raw as well.
A, saying he can't get her off assumes he only gets her off once. B, she'd only get raw if you did the same thing over and over again for four hours. Use your imagination and your knowledge of anatomy (or get some if you don't have any knowledge of anatomy) and you'll know there is a lot more you can do involving your mouth than lick.
OK, so I just caught up on this topic, and wanted to address something Matt89 said way back in Post 108. He said a girl shouldn't be scared to cum while being eaten out, and it seemed no one on here could understand why she might be. Like myself, a close friend of mine had grown up believing that female ejaculation, also called squirting, was only a myth propogated by the porn industry. We had talked about it, and agreed that it probably was. She eventually figured out that in fact it was not, and that she was one who could do that during orgasm. However, her partner of the time was just as ignorant about it as she, and thought that the fluid going in his mouth was pee, not cum. It freaked them both out, and humiliated her, till her doctor explained it to her, and thus to him. But I think a lot of girls, and even guys, might still think this way about it. I know my friend told me she was scared to allow herself to cum when receiving oral for a long time, because she was self-conscious. I don't blame her. So maybe that's what Matt89 meant.
Yes, but he said "oral sex" He doesn't say "good sex" Last time I checked oral was made up of the lips, tongue, and mouth?
Now with these oral items you use them on her vagina?
There's so much more to oral sex than just the mouth, lips and tongue used on the vagina. Now, sure, technically speaking oral sex requires the mouth, but you don't have to be interacting with the vagina at all times. Explore a little, try taking your time on the journey down or up to her vagina, she'll like that I bet. If you're in the shower, try washing her as you slowly kiss downward. Kiss and nibble playfully at the inside of her thighs. Tease her navel with the tip of your tongue. Some girls like you to use your breath. Yes, your breath, its very sensual. You could even use your fingers if you wanted. This is just a partial list of the techniques I've used. I could easily see how you could stretch that out into a very long and pleasurable experience for both of you, no muscle spasming involved.
Ah, but that is just good sex. No oral in the title required.
So, where are all the oral sex freaks? This is probably about my favorite sexual topic, so I had to bring it back. LOL. I agree with cody, and this doesn't just work for women. It can drive a guy wild as well. Pay attention to his inner thighs and his balls. Show his nipples a bit of love as well. Do it like you really want to, instead of making it seem like you're just fulfilling your obligation.
Hmm Sex for 4 hours sounds interesting. I have a question, though. I guess
everyone is different, but what would you all say is enough time to have sex? 4
minutes? 15 minutes? 30 minutes? I'm not saying that it's the end of sex for the
day, Just a thought.
Wow! Depends!
Example.
You are already turned on, so you two step in to the bathroom at a friends house, or maybe ta club, or these one person bathrooms at hotels. Weddings come to mind. Smile.
Fine, 5 minutes?
It's intense! '
the amount of time for sex varies, just like different people's wants vary, from person to person.
so, with that in mind, sex can last as long as people want it to, or as long as they have the time for it to.
to elaborate on Wayne's explanation of starting it in a bathroom, maybe you and a partner get in a cab, where you continue sex, maybe you even suck him off there, or he fingers you, making you cum repeatedly. then, after a little rest at home, you go for round two.
I assumed she meant how quickly could it be done and be called sex.
Love the continuing idea though.
Cab driver might object to a girl getting fingered in the back seat. Might mess his seats up. Smile.
I have always wanted to give and receive oral, but honestly, quite scared of it, due to some things of my past. But this is definitely an interesting topic. Kinda wonder if the girl I ever do date will actually like giving it, and receiveing? I haven't heard much girls that like to swallow, which is one of my biggest fantasies, honestly.
All right, enough said.
Hmm.
Now, I want to hear about these things in your past. Smile.
No thanks, man.
Maybe when I get to know you more, haha.
You sure you want to "know me?" Lol
Good point, didn't honestly think about that, haha.
I'm really happy to see this bord brought back for another year. Maybe it's shallow, so say what you will, but this, and perfect cock size, straight dick or curved dick and what do you think of anal sex are way high up there on my list of favorite board. Not really sure what I can say that I haven't already said here. I love every aspect of bringing the guy to climax, and I like the feel of the cum, but as far as the taste, I can take or leave it. I really don't mind it, but it certainly wouldn't be something I crave. However, I do love the feel of a hard cock pulsing and throbbing as the cum shoots out of it, whether it's in my mouth or just in my hand.
Yeah, Anth!
Keeping it alive for ya.
Keeping what alive? your cock, or the board? LOL
I was refering to the board, haha.
I also want to say i like a tite pussy to lick.
stickinging my tong and licking the clit tirns me on to.
I also love to swello a mans come it can tast strong but good.
i also want to say that when i suck dick my nipples get hard.
I love a nice big cock. And he has to be cut. When a guy is sucking me off, I like it the tighter the better, with a lot of tongue play around the head, so I give the guy that when I'm doing it. I would also let the right guy do me bareback.
Apparently a lot of Americans are cut. Between me and this board, I'm not. I was adopted from Asia, and that's not really a cultural thing over there.
I'm wondering if this might be a turn off to some people?
I'd doubt it.
If a girls going to suck you, she's already decided your clean enough, so.
Cut, or uncut most likely be the iissue. It will be, does she suck penises or not. Will you come in her moth or not.
I guess it's nasty to start with unless she's sexually educated, or willing to try.
I should add, I think the nasty or not is the same for men.
I've known both that want to be sucked or eaten, but will not give it back. Just nasty.
Tell us, what is the thought in your culture for men? Are women dirty, or nasty?
I've only seen one uncut cock in my life. Frankly, it did turn me off. That said, they're all a little different. So while I vastly prefer circumcised, I guess I can't rule out uncut totally either. Depends on size, shape, cleanliness. Cut seems to be much cleaner. Just my thoughts.
A thought.
If you've decided a person's clean enough to have sex with, and after you've undressed, you are still interested due to them being clean enough.
You don't mind cut guys, and have sucked them.
If a guys uncut, and clean is a concern, why not simply give him a quick wash?
Make it a turn on wash.
Now, we are equal to the cut, right?
Good point. Like I said, each cock is different. Mostly I've seen cut. I haven't had a lot of experience with uncut. But in erms of feel, thus far, I like the smoothness of cut. It's actually a very beautiful thing to feel. Interestingly enough, on the sly a female colleague and myself were talking about such things a few weeks back, and she said her boyfriend's son, who was only fourteen, opted to get his cut because he thought his own looked ugly. I think that's probably because cut is such the norm in the U.S. that uncut is now looked upon as somewhat weird. Don't mean to offend anyone; just the general observation.
I was actually thinking of getting mine cut recently, but it's not something I worry about too much because I'm not sexually active. I guess if the woman I'm with would prefer it, I might consider it, but I do agree that for me anyways, it's not the sexiest thing to feel, but whatever.
I've said too much, haha.
People claim it is abuse and such things to have it done to a newborn, but they don't feel or remember it at all.
Now, at 14 or 20 something, you're gonna feel it.
Unless a woman just wanted it, I'd not get cut.
You might have bad dreams about blades from now on. Lol
Due to some mishappenings in my life, and stories I've read, I already do, haha.
So it might be interesting.
They send in a sexy nurse.
She rubs on it for a while, then reaches in her pocket for a big pair of shears.
Smile.
Ouchie! Anyway, I know a guy who had it done when he was in his early 20s. There was some discomfort for him for a while, but I don't think he regrets getting it done. He got a bit of opposition about it from his parents though.
they weren't the ones having it done to them, so that's ridiculous.
It's not something the family and I really discuss, as most of us are adopted anyways, so I have to imagine I would just go about it without letting them know. It's not really any of their business, anyways, is it?
I'd hope not?
For some cultures the skin has religious binds.
Others believe you shouldn't remove any natural parts of your body.
For this reason parents strongly refuse to have there sons cut.
Some people believe it protects the head of the penis, and that sexual stimulation is less for guys that have been cut over guys that have not been altered.
The think the nerves are damaged a bit by the cutting.
Lots of ideas on this matter.
no, it's no one's business whether a guy chooses to go through with it or not.
I agree actually. But from what I understand about his background, his family emigrated from Mexico, and are very strongly Catholic, so the whole religion thing makes sense. His mother in particular threw a fit. He ignored her and got it done anyway. But then, it also took them a while to get over the fact that he likes boys, so what the hey. Me, I'm glad I'm cut, and I gues I'm pretty pro-circumcision, but not enough to force the issue either way. I've heard there are guys who greatly resent having it done to them as babies, so there's this movement against it now, but I just think that's a little over the top. I mean, if you didn't remember getting cut and it didn't greatly impact you, my attitude is get on with your life, but then I'm not gunna say anything if you wanna get your foreskin re-attached. The chances of my going down on that are relatively slim, but that's just me. We all have our likes and dislikes.
Yeah, this is a major deal for many men.
Most times mothers decide on the newborn status.
Doctors use to believe it helped with hygene, but that is gone now.
Believe it or not, it is a family issue in many cases.
It's really heavy.
You might say it's not the family business, but nieghter should your sex life b
. Who you marry. If your sheets have blood on them after your wedding night.
So, yeah!
I'd love to see one, so I can decide for myself. I can't believe that out of all the cocks I've seen, I've only seen cut ones. But even so, there's been quite a bit of variety even in that. I've seen cocks where the slit was a perfect coin-slot look, and then I've seen some that had a more ragged look. Of course curved and straight. I've seen ones that seemed to have a much larger underside, if that makes sense. I don't know the words to describe some of this stuff. I also saw one where it seemed that one side of it was a bit firmer than the other side.
Ah, even gay men want to see variety. Smile.
Now, I wonder if different women/men taste different.
Women do depending, and smell different, or feel different in many ways.
The stronger scented seem to be more erotic, or the scent stimulating, before and after sex over the over scrubbed, or perfumed.
Perfume taste bad too.
Maybe that is why the directions have you put it on in places that might not be in the licking zones?
Behind the ears, wrist, armpits and under the breast if you have them.
The warm natural scent of a woman can start the fires, if you are that close to her to smell her, or turning her on, so she gives it off.
Is this same for gay males?
Paul you said is she wanted it cut, you would get it cut.
Nobody spoke up about this part and I'm not surprised because you're a man, and so supposed to comply. But, are you sure you would really want to do that? If a woman came on here and said her man wanted her to have her labia trimmed -- something akin to male circumcision -- everyone, including you and me, would be renouncing the jerk for promoting genital mutilation. Perhaps we should ask ourselves why it is that male genital mutilation is okay, and female is not? Go online to Youtube, watch a circumcision video, there's one where the woman narrates. They turn the sound off where the baby is, so you can't hear them crying. Read the comments, since you can't see.
I think it's time societies do away with mutilation practices like foot binding, female genital mutilation, and yes, dare I say it, male genital mutilation as well. I obviously don't miss my foreskin, I was a baby when it was routinely done, frequently with less than adequate anesthetic in the U.S. I have no idea if my heart stopped during it, as happens to many baby boys. But obviously I had no ill effects as I am here now. But that's not the issue: Had I had a son, and been ill-informed and allowed for the procedure to be done, it is then I would have a very difficult time living with myself. Now that I am informed and understand what's going on.
I realize there are lots of correlative links between circumcision and violence, etc., which cannot be properly linked, and may be merely correlative and not causative. I'm not a psychologist or other mental health professional, so honestly don't know. But when I saw that vid someone sent, I thought not of myself, but of my daughter, had she been born a son. Because under no circumstances would I have allows her to be genitally mutilated as a baby, having the labia cut off. So why not, if we are going to be equal with things, have the same heart for baby boys? What an informed adult does under informed consent, when they canspeak for themselves and make sure everything is numb first, is one thing. But for a baby to be laid out on a board and five-pointed restrained into position, fully awake, with a pacifier in its mouth, and one of their main concerns being the baby will regurgitate, that might just tell you something. Considering that pain in the penis directly hits the stomach area.
It is possible for us to deliberately evolve our sense of empathy for others in circumstances not directly like our own. I will admit I didn't watch the whole video, but I did read quite a few of the comments. We clearly have a very morally stunted attitude about this in the U.S., and it doesn't have to do with middle aged men pining for a foreskin they can't possibly remember or may not even really understand how it would work. It has to do with a dismissive attitude toward strapping a baby to a board and (hopefully) giving it enough anetsthetic -- 1 in ten cases not true, from what I read - and cutting off body parts. For no medically necessary reason.
But, it's way different for baby birls. They don't have any parts that are not necessary, or flaps of skin.
The forskin it just that, skin.
Also, I will point out, that when this is done to girls, it is an abusive measure, or to remove their sexual drive.
When it is done to boys, it is thought of as an improvement. To help them keep clean easier. Some believe it guards them from diseases or fungus.
On a grown woman, it looks exactly as you termed it, mutilation.
On a grown man, as you can see even here, it is looked at as cleaner, sexier.
Many women never recover their natural feeling, as designed, but men suffer no changes, and are easier to stimulate, because you don’t have to lift the skin.
The practice isn’t routine anymore in America, you have to pay to have it done.
If you pay when the boy is newborn, you get a discount, but later, you have to pay more.
I know this, because I know a woman that just had a baby boy.
I am not a woman, but I am grateful this practice is condoned many places, and doctors refuse it.
Some women are having some of their labia removed now for cosmetic reasons, but they are deciding, and are grown, but not the hood, and parts of their clitoris.
I was surprised, women felt they needed to remove some of the labia.
I understand why after reading about it.
I always thought the whole of her was sensitive, but I’ve read it doesn’t change anything and some say the tighter labia is better.
It's interesting.
I personally don't look at my circumcision as a genital mutillation. If anything, I see it as an improvement. I don't think it diminishes sex drive or stimulation, and I definitely don't regret having to make such a fuss about cleaning down there. Maybe the practice of circumcising baby boys could be done more humanely, but the fact remains that none of us who were cut remembers it. Maybe there are two sides to the argument of whether circumcision is cleaner and lessens the possibility of disease to sexual partners, but I do tend to be more sympathetic to the pro-circumcision camp. I'm glad I was cut, and I venture to say that had I not been, I'd definitely have gotten it done.
Just keeping this board alive. Giving it some love, if you will.
How many of you peeps mind a kiss or two after oral?
Just a question I thought of while reading this board.
Love it. But have known a couple girls that wouldn't let you kiss them after you finished pleasing them.
They gripe? They didn't like the way they tasted or smelled.
Or, it was nasty, so... Smile.
I certainly don't have a problem with it, but I'm not a huge kisser to begin with.
If a guy can eat me out, I can kiss him, and vice versa.
This circumcision topic, though. I slept with a native-born Dominican, and I rather enjoyed teasing him via his foreskin. It's actually incredibly pleasurable for them, so in effect, some of their feeling is taken with that snip.
Ah, but if you've been snipped, you'll never know how it might have been. .
I love to kiss. Kissing is a really large part of my turn on.
Women should know. Your vagina is actually cleaner then your mouths.
Kiss a man after he's sucked on you. He deserves it.
Hi. Before I start this, please note I'm 27 and have absolutely no idea what this feels like from both perspectives, so pardon the naive nature of this post.
So i've never posted to this kind of topic before, (at least I don't remember doing so), and I thought maybe my question would be better suited for grafiti, but there's no point in hiding behind the anonymous button for something like this since we're all adults here, and we're discussing this subject openly and honestly. So ... here it goes.
were any of you guys really nervous, squeamish, or self-conscious regarding the notion of being on the receiving end before you atually did it? How did you overcome that anxiety, and were you ever afraid of being judged because of the appearance or odor of your genitals? I mean, having a trusted partner getting that up close and personal with your nether region, IMO, takes a lot of courage. also, asking for, or in some cases if you're really hot and bothered, demanding your partner to go down on you, suck you off, whatever phrase you use just throws me a bit, especially since i've not really been in a situation where such language is generally used. I guess i'm chuckling mostly because i've never actually been on either the giving or receiving end of oral sex, but i'm willing to try the giving part, at least.
BTW, I'm straight, and not looking for a one-night stand, fWB relationship or anything that involves such emotional detachment. I was just curious about this subject as I've never done it before, nor have I actually lost my virginity, so this is all fascinating to me. Nothing wrong with asking, right? Thanks for your insight.
Nothing wrong with asking whatsoever. I'm glad you did it. You should never
be afraid to ask questions about sex. I, and several other people, are always
happy to give our, well lets call it expertese.
Now then, I do remember being a little squeemish the first time a girl went
down on me. I wasn't sure what to expect. I'd only seen a couple porns at the
time, and it sounded like the girls in those films were about to vomit, I did not
want that to happen. The first girl who didn't wasn't experienced either, but she
did her best, and it wasn't bad. It got me very hot and bothered.
I have had girls both ask and demand for me to go down on them, before and
after sex, even once during a particularly long session when she needed a break
but didn't want to stop orgasming. I've never asked a girl to do it during sex
though. I've had one girl, same girl actually, do it just because she liked it, but
that's it.
The main thing though, is relax, its nowhere near as involved as you think it
will be. Giving oral, for guys at least, I don't know about girls, is pretty easy if
you're just willing to do a few things.
Hope that helps.
I was introduced to it at a pretty young age, by someone I knew very well, so I wasn't nervous about that part of it, but yes, even today, I'm worried about instant judgment from someone wanting to give me head, mainly because I know I'm really not big enough to get anyone excited by the prospect. Giving, on the other hand, is my favorite. I love to go down on a guy, and I'd rather him be too small than too big. I have no experience with women either way on this, so can't give any insite there. Nothing wrong with asking questions like this. It's one of the best ways to learn.
I never had the time to think about it one way or the other to be afraid or other things.
I was fortunate to have girls in my neighborhood that were interested and willing to experiment at a young age.
My parents gave me the gift of not limiting what I read, so I ordered all and any book I could get on sex.
I also had a quality sex education class in the 6th or 7th grade my parents signed me up for.
I have not had a girl ask me to go down on her, because it is something I offer as foreplay, so she can get hot. Many women are slower than guys, so giving them some stimulation makes the sex best for everyone.
As for myself, we talk about how they feel about doing me out of bed. That way I know what to expect. If I’ve been with the girl before, I can ask her directly.
I enjoy the natural scent of a woman, but if you feel like you might smell, simply wash. Don’t scrub, you’re not dirty, but just some mild soap and water, or water plain.
You’ll smell to some degree anyway, and that will be up to the guy to like or not.
If you pee before sex, or during, wipe with a wet cloth.
In your case, don’t feel shy. Also I think I’d have an out of bed discussion with your first guy about your feelings, fears, or whatever.
Hope that helps.
yes, it does, thanks.
Oral? Um yeah ... someone ruined the impression. It'll take a trusted (and I mean VERY TRUSTED) male to get me to do that.
Sex should be a trusted event. It is more relaxing, and fun when you have trust I think.
When partners are tense, someone won't enjoy it.
If a new partner to sex doesn't enjoy it, it puts a damper on the future.
My, this board still exist!, kay post on. I'll just read and stay in the back ground.
Once a board has been created, it is there. There are boards much much older than this.
Too bad some of the boards to which i'd still like to see people post have been locked. *sigh*
hi, this is an awesome topic for discussion! my fantasy is to fuck a guy with the following names, Denis, Jim or Walter. I don't know why but its something that I love. guys with big cocks I find a little scary giving head. I haven't been licked out before.
Reyami, if it's a topic that would interest you, maybe create a similar board? Sometimes users get kind of snobby about that, but I think people would be a lot more understanding of a duplicate board now that they've implemented the locking of old topics.
Yes, that is a good suggestion.
Pussy eating is fun and for me it's just all a part of things. It can set the mood then I mount her and finish the job.
You mount her? Hahahaha! Too fuckin funnyyyyy! I like a close clipped set of balls because I will give head and suck and lick the balls too. Getting eaten out.....the most awesome orgasm ever, yum!
yeah… What can i say… nothing like that big dick, hitting that sweet spot…
down, or , up there… let me have it till i cry! :)
I sort of cringed when floppy said closely clipped balls. I won't do that sorry. Lol mounting was meant to be just another way to say fuck in this case but it does describe how I do it.
Um, it's actually easier to be shorn than trimmed. I have gone full clean for the past couple months or so now. Way easier than a trim, shave int the shower. Probably TMI for some.
I trim up as well. The fact is, it makes any sexual activity feel better.
I love almost all parts of sex, but there is just nothing like a good hard cock right inside of me! Oh yeah!
I will say there's nothing like sliding it in.
I would agree. That feeling when it first wraps around your shaft is incredible.
Yes indeed, you've read my mind.
Its great to finger fuck a girl before going down on her, it gets her really slick with the juices and makes it taste even sweeter.
If the girl can sit on your mouth its even more exciting for the girl as she gets a deeper sensation.
I see finger fucking as starting the engine. It's a good way to get her ready for anything.
Shopping and buying you that new electronic gadget you want maybe?
Laughing.
Lol sure. Flattery gets you everywhere.
I am fine if you want to mimic this board
seeings I'm married and put away the crazy side of me, feel free to have this board live on lol. Oh, one word! cocanut oil, I'll let the curious minds dive deep into a gutter for that thought.
No you don't. You just posted so now it is at the top again.
Laughing.
I';m not sure why, this board came to existence but live on lol. LIke I said, its from my crazy side.
So, back to the topic at, um, mouth?
Grin.
I actually think this is an important topic because society frowns on it for some reason. Women can talk about dicks all day but when you talk about a pussy it's sort of like "WTF!"
Is it? I've enver noticed that myself. Not saying it isn't true. And yes, coconut oil makes things . very, very fun.
I cant help but to wonder if you have some grudge against women margorp. I've never heard of women getting mad about stuff like that.
When I was in bigger groups that consisted of women and men, we all talked about pussy and dick. period.
I say this because every board I turn to it's, women do this and how dare they.
I understand how you would come to that. I didn't say all women are like that. I was just making the observation that in general society tell men "oops, careful careful." Trust me I was speaking in very general terms.
I think sex is something that is discussed amongst those who you can talk about those things to.
you don't see women go out in public and talking to strangers about dicks, men don't do it as well. It's a matter of who your talking to, that's all.
Absolutely.
I was having one of my contemplative moments over a beer.
Have you ever wondered how much pee you’ve licked, or sucked up over your sexual history due to giving cunilingus?
Its not as if you ask your girl to go wash every time you get in the mood to, so you’ve had lots if you’ve given lots.
Laughing.
I firmly believe that if a couple chooses to engage in oral activity, that is their choice. society has no right to frown upon them for it, as society as a while is not part of that couple. at the same time, if a person does not feel comfortable engaging in this activity, or just plain doesn't want to, that choice should be accepted and respected as well. Again, it's none of society's business how you choose to fuck your partner, as long as said partner is in agreement with you on your methods. It's not the rest of the world's job to decide how you live your sex live.
I don't remember if I posted in here so I'll say my peace...
I am not big on getting head. Why you ask? Because a lot of girls just don't
know how to do it. Granted, applause for the few who actually get down but it
seems to be a rarity. It's a combo of mouth+neck+hands - it's not rocket
science.
Shout out to the lady friend.
As for eating pussy, I'm not gonna act like i'm a professional but I definitely do
my thing. My style is sensual with a bit roughness, just to stay in control.